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How to pick up women at the beach on holidays?

I live close to a beach in France and I have never been able to pick up women on a beach. Whatever the pickup artists say, it is difficult to pick up women on a beach because it is a public place. Women are in a defensive mode on beaches. I must admit I am also very suspicious when someone approaches me in a public place. Once again, don’t believe any staged youtube videos of pickup artists who pick up women on a beach. It is very easy to hire actresses, anywhere all over the world.

I don’t know if it is still possible to pick up women on a beach whatever the country in North America or Europe.

Nevertheless, here is what I have observed at the beach. You have to be mobile because if you are an on a 1-mile beach it is useless to settle somewhere and wait if there is nobody around you. Then, I have noticed many women wanted to be left alone. That’s normal they are on holidays. First of all, if you are more than two men, make pairs rather than approaching women in groups.

One way to meet women on the beach would be to approach them at beach bar. So, stay at the counter and women will come on their own close to you to order their drinks.

The business card technique

When you see a woman you like, just check if you have eye contact with her by staying not so far from her. Wait for the best time to talk to her.

Women are busy and you have little time to speak with her.

Consequently, I think the best technique would be the business card technique. You give a compliment to a woman, you give your business card with your email address, telegram, instagram account on it. Never give your phone number to someone you don’t know.

Create a “call-to-action”  saying that if she wants (or if they want) to go out tonight you are available and leave promptly after your speech.The whole process has to be brief from the time when you start to talk to her and when you leave. Then, you can start again with another woman somewhere else so that you will have several options and will more likely receive a positive answer from a woman.  On the other hand, if you focus on a woman or a group of women by lying next to them on the beach, you will likely be unsuccessful.