In the USA or Western Europe, men require a lot of energy and self-confidence to pick up a woman nowadays. If your hands are shaking and if your voice isn’t stable, a woman will feel it.
She may not consider you as a serious potential boyfriend. In fact, if we think about it, the expectations of western European women & American women are high especially in their early twenties. I want to say that it makes it difficult for men to talk with lots of confidence. It is not something that every man can get in a flash.
- Accept to fail, failures are part of life.
- Think about the sentence you are going to say.
- Speak slowly and deep.
- Practice on your own. Imagine an appointment with a woman. Keep doing it until you are convinced by yourself.
- Practice with women you’re not interested in. You’ll gain confidence and you’ll be much more efficient afterward.
- Help yourself with a drink if you don’t feel confident enough.
- Stop listening to other people, listen to yourself.