When a man gets emotional about a woman, it is dangerous because he does not act rationally. In this case, he can forget to act in his interest in a relationship. Then, he can find himself in trouble because of his choice. Now let’s take examples to see how it would work.
Dating the wrong woman
The dating coaches and pick up artists don’t take the women’ mindset into account. For example, if you are in love with a psycho, it would be no surprise to be prosecuted for sexual abuse or sexual harassment or even rape. Some men may think there will be no danger if they have a one night stand but the threat appears as soon as you start to interact with a psycho woman.
Marrying the wrong woman
Let’s imagine you are in love with an unemployed woman. it means you are going to financially support her for the rest of your life. If it is a woman who has no degrees and no skills, it means she will agree to work hard for her for the rest of your life. If you are in love with an arty woman who does photography, who has a Master in the history of arts, it means you are going to support her for the rest of your life.
When a man is deeply in love, he can forget his interest in a situation. He can expose himself legally. He can lose a lot of money, can ruin his health, can take risks in the name of love for a woman.
For example, a loving husband will accept to take out a 30-year term mortgage loan in a blink of an eye because his wife asked for it. A loving boyfriend will decide to move to New York city while he lives in Los Angeles for the love of his girlfriend. A loving man will accept to give up his life in the UK to live in Ukraine or Australia with his bride. A loving man will drive 8 hours to meet a woman and come back the day after. A loving man may decide to give up his job to live with a woman. A loving man may decide to financially support his girlfriend.
If a man is in love, it is easy to manipulate him as he disconnected his rationality from his brain. He does not act in his interest anymore. So, a woman can convince a man to do whatever she wants in the name of love saying: “if you love me, do this”. In fact, according to my observation, that’s men who decide to work for women on their own without being asked.
Finding yourself in trouble because of your love for a woman is just not acceptable. On top of that, it is always important to choose situations that will be beneficial to you. There is no need to make a sacrifice to date, to share your life or to have sex with a woman. It is not acceptable being ruined because of love for a woman. It is not acceptable for losing your job because of love for a woman. It is not acceptable for losing your friends because of a woman. It is not acceptable being unhealthy because of love for a woman.
The more you are rational in a relationship with a woman and the more you are less likely to be in trouble. That’s why some women encourage you to be emotional. The more emotional you are, and the less you control the situation, the more a woman can control you.