On the MGTOW 101 YouTube Channel, I have heard this story of a 40-year-old man who asked MGTOW 101 if he should date a 40-year-old woman. She was an old acquaintance.
It also happened to me. Here is what I have to say:
There are plenty of 40 years old women who are either divorced or single. They aren’t interesting.
Women don’t age as men. It would be a mistake for a man to date a woman as old as him. A 40 years old woman is likely not fertile and can’t have any children. If a man has never had children, take into account that at 45 years old, it is almost impossible for a woman to have a child. In terms of beauty, if a man is interesting by a 40 years old woman who does not look bad it is a bad move because she is going to hit the wall very soon.
In the early 40s, women have a 34% chance of getting a miscarriage. (reference)
After age 35 (not just 40), women are at an increased risk of…
- Gestational diabetes
- High blood pressure
- Preeclampsia
- Premature labor and birth
- Cesarean delivery
A 40-year-old woman has a 5 percent chance of conceiving each month
At 40, 50 or 60 years old, a man has always the option to have a child with a woman aged between 20 and 35 years old. In Europe, There are only 3-8% of the whole male population who aren’t fertile.
About the women who never had a child
At 40 years old, a woman missed her chance and it is not your fault. Many women think they will eternally be fertile when they are young. They play the princesses thinking they have time on their hand. At 40 years old, it is too late. Between 40 and 45 years old, many women aren’t fertile anymore and will never have a baby. Meanwhile, men don’t have any biological clock, and they can get a baby at 40+.
I don’t believe in the story of the woman who was unlucky when she looked for a man between 20 years old and 40 years old. It is not possible because everywhere in the world if you are a woman, men will ask you for a date and you will get many opportunities in your life. In my life, I have never seen a woman who was unlucky with men. With all the men available on dating websites, it is not possible for a woman to be unlucky. If she is good-looking and if she is single, it means she decided to be single. She is likely self-centered, frigid, feminist, psychologically twisted.
About the women who had children
In this case, let’s imagine that a 40-year-old woman is single with one or several children. >It means that if you decide to commit to her, you are going to be the new stepfather of children who aren’t yours. So, you may find yourself in a difficult situation with a problem that can’t be resolved. A man in this situation faces a big problem when a child makes mischief. At any time, the mother can remind you that you have no authority on the children. This type of issues can occur at any point when the child is 8 years old, 13 years old or 18 years old. So, the relationship may start well but you never know what can happen in the future.
On top of that, from what I have observed, when the biological father has different views on education that the stepfather this creates tension when the child comes over and see her mother who lives with the stepfather. If you are the stepfather, you may find yourself in trouble because your stepdaughter or your
Old acquaintances
Here is the classic story: This is the story of a man who secretly loved a woman at high school, at the university or at his workplace. Life goes by. After many years, around 40 years old, the woman comes back and suddenly, she is willing to commit to him.
She comes back for a reason. Either her expectations towards men were too high, she ended up lonely or, she may have divorced because the man fled since in 70% of cases the woman triggers the divorce.
This means that the man who receive the request was not the first choice in the first place. He was the backup solution. The woman is not a fresh flower anymore.
Out of thin air, she appears on the man’s radar as she sends the man a
I encourage men to stop being emotional and be rational. This woman is not as beautiful as she was once. She likely wants to be with the said man by interest. In the western world, many women neglect their sentimental life and never want to invest time and energy for it in their twenties and their thirties. Consequently, they end up lonely at 40 years old. If they didn’t call the man before, they made a mistake. They are many other women on earth anyways.
There are very few attractive cougars. Who should you choose an old woman when you could pick up a younger one? Most of the 40 years old men can pick up 30 years old women and nobody is going to be upset about it.
Pressure on men?
The pressure to commit to someone should not be on men shoulders but women shoulders because of the biological clock. Additionally, women get uglier faster than men. Look at the couples in their 50s.
Conclusion
Age is a problem for women, not men. It would be a mistake for a man to date older women or to date women who are as old as him when he is 40+.
Women must pay a high price for being picky or passive with men in their 20s and their 30s. A woman who was picky may have told you “no” when you wanted to date her in your twenties or 30s.
Women are on average beautiful for a short period of time in their lifetime. They should understand this aspect of the female body by looking at their mothers and grandmothers. It is also important to remind them that women get older faster than men and that the biological clock is ticking.